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Written By Lisa Fleetwood

Gift of Presence Toolkit

Why Would an FCN Want to Talk About “The Gift of Presence”?

Loneliness and social isolation are significant health concerns that often intensify during the holiday season. While this time of year is associated with connection and celebration, it can also heighten feelings of grief, loss, and disconnection for those who are alone, caregiving, or separated from loved ones. These experiences are not just emotional—they are linked to poorer physical and mental health outcomes, including increased risk of depression, chronic illness, and even premature death.

By intentionally addressing presence, FCNs can help individuals feel seen, heard, and valued in a time when many quietly struggle with isolation. Even small moments of genuine connection can have a meaningful impact on a person’s overall well-being.

Fast Facts: Loneliness, Connection, and Health

  • Loneliness and social isolation are common and serious health risks. About 1 in 3 U.S. adults report feeling lonely, and about 1 in 4 report little or no social or emotional support — both of which are linked to poorer health outcomes. (CDC)

  • Social isolation and loneliness increase the risk of chronic disease. Being socially isolated or lonely is associated with a higher risk of heart disease, stroke, type 2 diabetes, depression, anxiety, and dementia. (CDC)

  • Older adults are especially at risk. A significant portion of adults aged 60+ report feelings of loneliness or social isolation, which can affect quality of life and health. (NIH)

  • Strong social connection supports well-being. Meaningful social connections are linked to better mental and physical health and a lower risk of premature mortality. (WHO)

FCNs are uniquely equipped to address loneliness and isolation because they combine clinical awareness, relational presence, and spiritual care. Unlike many roles, FCNs are able to assess health concerns while also responding to emotional and spiritual needs within the context of a trusted faith community. FCNs can make a real difference by:

  • Recognizing early signs of isolation and its impact on health.

  • Providing compassionate, undistracted listening that fosters trust and connection.

  • Offering holistic care that integrates physical, emotional, and spiritual support.

  • Creating intentional opportunities for connection within the faith community.

  • Grounding care in spiritual practices that affirm worth, presence, and belonging.

Lisa Fleetwood